Gotta love it

61. holding hands, when my fingers are enwrapped around anothers, that certain someone rubbing his thumb softly.

 

62. wildflowers

63. walking around the fair with Marie

 

64. getting married one day to the my soul-mate God has out there for me

65. gentle breeze, especially near the water

66. Hot, steaming, brothy, vegetable soup

67. Having curves, having actual hips...being the pear body-shape God made me

68. Granny Squares

69. Double wedding ring quilts

70. cute fuzzy warm socks

 

71. someone playing with my hair

 

72. being wrapped in a beanie & scarf on a cold day

73. fresh untouched snow

74. icicles

75. undisturbed spider's web

76. Glittens, fingerless glove-mittens

77. Ducks

78. Otters

79. Strange & silly pointless facts

80. Having such strong passion, desires, feelings, & emotions

81. that perfect cute pair of heels that make you feel gorgous

82. a cute pair of boots

83. comfy sweater

84. Campfires & Fireplaces

85. Roasted Marshmallows

What can a wife do for a husband?

*Originally written November 14th, 2010*

I hear so many preachers, women, men, books, talk shows, psychologists, therapists, & many others always talk about what a women really want that will help with the relationship...but something seems lacking to me, it's so one-sided. I want to hear what a wife can do for her husband.  Why is it we always focus on the female, I guess because were so hard to  read and tend to just expect our men to know what we want...but love is self-sacrificing.  It isn't that I think it not that important what women want and need, it is!  But its also important for us to talk with our husbands, our men, and TELL THEM OURSELVES!  I think it will form more of a bond, a mutual respect for one another, by confronting and talking about your needs and each other's needs.  You will grow closer not just by talking to each other about your more intimate needs but also by doing each other's more intimate needs.

Anyways, I'm not married, and I'm not a man obviously, so if there are men or husbands that read this, let the world know what it is YOU want in a marriage, in a wife, in a God-centered relationship...what you need from us...what can a wife do for a husband.